What do you think when you get the impression from someone that they have it all figured out - that they have all the answers? Some folks are drawn to those people for various reasons, but that kind of certitude can be off-putting. I cringe when I think back on my life and realize how clueless I was to my own brokenness. I was the king of denial and blame shifting. There was always a reasonable excuse for me getting upset or frustrated - and it was never pointed back at my lack of emotional or spiritual maturity. It was something or someone else's fault.